"Everyone is their own kind of lesbian. To think there's a certain way to dress or present yourself in the world is just one more stereotype we have to fit into." Portia de Rossi

One of the best experiences i had is with my friend, Mara. We had been doing combat at Rada and she kept flirting by blowing on this heated area of my chest, from the combat hits that we were doing. After the course had finished we went to where her parents (over from NZ)Were staying in Kingston. We went to this dreamland shot cafe and after having some unusual concoctions, sat by the river in this hidden area and watched swans ducking the atmosphere was incredible. Then we walked outside her place and kissed - that was the first and last time that I have ever felt completely out of my body when kissing someone - stuck in an intense moment. Pure bliss. The second time we kissed was different but incredible - more firey passionate in the loos at Ku, at the end of a Tuesday evening - no one came in for at least 15 mins (unheard of) - whilst we were holding each others face intensely. Nothing has compared since this and it's hard to explain how in one moment I could understand everything about Mara - I have definitely known her before...